San Francisco, Are You Okay?
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In this candid episode, we share the lessons learned from a trip to San Francisco, discuss real feelings about fatherlessness, and dive deep into what “daddy issues” really mean. Tune in for humor, reflection, and healing.
This week’s episode was a wild ride. I recently went on a trip to San Francisco and was quickly reminded how much I dislike this city! Between the disease-riddled restrooms, the public fornication, being peed on by a homeless man, and a bar that closed at 9 pm on a Saturday, I was in disbelief. My visit to the Bay Area left me asking two questions San Francisco, are you okay, and what really is a “daddy issue?”
I touched on a few pointers I have learned over the years about remaining strong while recognizing the disadvantages of not having a parent.
Here are a few of the lessons I have learned over the years:
You are not alone
It’s important to remember although the situations may differ, thousands, if not millions, of people, feel exactly like you.
The best way to go through something is to grow through it
Allow yourself to be open to change and growth. This change leads to a potentially happier and more successful life.
Know that every emotion or experience you have is completely normal and valid
What happened to you was not your fault; it can be difficult to see that sometimes.
It’s okay to be angry, confused, sad, happy, frustrated, relieved, and resentful. Every emotion has a place and is valid.
Find a bigger purpose for your pain
Heal through your situation by finding a way to use your pain to serve a bigger mission.
That’s what I did with this podcast; I turned my pain of not having a dad into a career.
Being parentless is an ever-evolving journey in your life
Not everyone comprehends what it’s like growing up without a parent. As difficult as that is to grasp, it is okay if people don’t understand.
This is your journey. Remember to be easy with yourself. You are a superhuman, not a superhero.
Thank you for joining me on this journey, and I look forward to sharing more with you all. If you would like to share your story, please, contact The Horth House.
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